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Question: My wife is a bit shy about this- how do we get past this

Dear Lounge Advice,my wife and i have been members for about a year now and have went to a few parties but have never hooked up with anyone yet , my wife is extremely beautiful and is a little shy about the lifestyle any advise ?



Dear (Anonymous),

When you find an alluring couple, what do you do? Perhaps if she is not that forward or is too shy to take the initiative, you'll have to take the lead. She may need you to be 'go-getter' so she can follow you into the fun. Make sure you talk to her about this and see if she is okay with this approach. As always, communicate also about who you both find appealing before taking any kind of action.
She may also need more time to come out of her shell. I know it took me a while to finally become more forward. She may still be in her acclimation period, and it could take her a bit more time than some others. But if you can take the initiative for now, this may help her transition into a more open individual while allowing you both to experience some fun times in the bedroom.
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