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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
Does the lifestyle break up couples?
How do I reel him back in or can I?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
What swing club or clubs in Las Vegas are couples only?
Glory Hole any where near the Twin Cities area?
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Question: I just found out my wife cheated

Dear Lounge Advice,
I just found out that my wife has had an affair and had sex with a bartender one night what should I do ?



Dear (Anonymous),

Did you find out from her?
If not, you need to confront her. This is a serious issue that needs to dealt with in a serious manner. You both need to talk- in fact, I daresay that you both should consider seeing a professional counselor about this. If you wish to keep the marriage intact despite what happened, seek professional help. Until then, you both need to sit down and confront the issue and the future of your relationship.
I wish I could be of more help here, but this is something that you need to figure out because of the numerous variables involved that I can never know. If you need further intervention, see someone who is certified to help.
If you are swinging, stop immediately and focus on your marriage!

P.S. You did not mark this as anonymous, but I went ahead and did so.
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