Dear Lounge Advice, Wishlisting. We are new to LL but have been in the lifestyle several years now. We have been wishlisted by several couples but when we respond we don't even get a hello in return. Isn't the wishlisting part an indication that you would like to meet the couple you wishlist? P&J Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), Usually, yes. Wishlisting is quite literally an indication that someone wishes to meet/hookup. Some people use the wishlist as a 'bookmark' to keep track of the interesting profiles too. Others may not even realize that when they 'bookmark' others by using the wishlist feature, that an e-mail is sent automatically. It's always quite strange when someone wishlists you and doesn't return an e-mail after you respond to it. Oh well- those are just people that don't need to part of your prospects anyway. The best thing for you to is to shrug it off and move on.