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Question: Complete distrust in the relationship

Dear Lounge Advice,

My partner and I are new to this lifestyle. After 2 plus years together. Mr. has confessed during our trip over New Year eve in 08 Cabo Mexico he cheated on me. I was divested, lost all my trust in him. I have been trying to work though the pain along with understanding his actions of why.
Here we are months later I found emails deleted. Mr. wrote He is available with out me and willing to travel. Mr. has his own business can come and go as he pleases. We do not live together.
He was traveling when I found the emails. Then I found condoms in his over nite bag. We are a soft swap couple and We donít use condoms. When confronted with them, Mr. told me that he brings them with when we go to swing clubs as a just in case. There is no reason to bring condoms to the swing clubs. They provided them. Then again it not a brand I would use. Moreover there not all accountable.
Our communication has broken down. It is affecting my self esteem, healthy and happiness. Now I am at a point I canít get off when we have sex. I know I am a very hot sexy woman that women and men desire. I am at a point I donít know what to do. Help me.



Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Stop swinging right now.
I want you to go to the following profile: COUNSELING

These are very serious issues and I know he will be your best resource in this time of crisis. Please do this for yourself immediately.
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