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Question: We're on again, off again. Is the LS a good idea?

Dear Lounge Advice,
I have been seeing the same guy "on and off again" going on 3 years now. He as always wanted to be a part of this lifestyle and I belive that we have broken up in the past because he wasn't sure that I wanted to be a part of this lifestyle.
I know he loves me and cares for me and we are best friends so we always end up getting back together.
I've recently discoverd on my own that I am bisexual. phew, I said it!
We are back together now and are trying to "explore" together.
We have had a couple of great experiences together and he has been perfect each time.
I worry though when I read about what makes this lifestyle work...
We've been so off and on that I'm not sure that we have a solid enough relationship to make this work.
I worry that I've never been enough for him...until I came with the possiblity of a Threesome.
Although that I'm excited about joining this lifestlye and I'm sure that he's the perfect guy for me to explore with...I still have my anxiety.
Any advice?
Thks!

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

From what you're telling me, your relationship is NOT ready for the dificulties you will encounter here.
Until you build a solid foundation, and quit the 'on again, off again' routine, your future here remains murky.
If your relationship isn't solid yet, why throw something as complicated as this into the mix?
Trust me, there is plenty of time for you to get it right between you. The lifestyle is not going anywhere, so please don't try to rush things. If he's a sure thing like you think, don't mess that up. Focus on your happiness first, then come back here when you're more stable together :)

Besides, I suck at "I told you so's" *wink*
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