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Question: Playing and leaving shortly afterwards- Rude?

Dear Lounge Advice,

my wife and i have been married for almost four years. we have had a few threesomes FFM, but no MFM(her choice), recently we found this site www.greatsexgames.com ,and purchased the swing set game from them.
Now my wife is very excited to play this game. We found a couple to play with, and after much inquiry she finally amitted that she would like to have sex with another man. im fine with this since she intially had the FFM with me. we are going to do an actual full swap(her choice again) will it be considered rude for us to leave shortly after playing? or should we stay around for a little bit to not seem like they are a booty call for us?

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

After playing, many people are usually tired anyways. I wouldn't consider it rude to leave. Don't bolt out, but don't feel that you have to stay forever and make things awkward.
Making others think they were only a booty call goes beyond just that night. If you don't correspond with them anymore, even if you don't intend on playing with them again, they may think they were used.
As long as you don't let on that you intend to build a relationship of some kind with them past that night, I wouldn't worry about it too much.
Plus, some people don't mind feeling like a booty call. After all, they may be seeing you this way.
Don't lead them on and you won't have to worry :)
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