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Question: How do you tell a couple that there is no sexual attraction?

Dear Lounge Advice,

What do you do in a situation where a couple has been very aggressive via email and telephone contact but after talking you find you aren't interested anymore?

How do you tell someone, although you have been talking for some time, that there is no sexual attraction and that the constant email/phone contact needs to stop??

Thanks!

Anonymous

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

We are all big boys and girls here and you have to be tactful but direct. Usually if we chat online and meet a couple but there is no attraction or chemistry, we simply will send them an email that says something like....

"It was wonderful meeting you and we love to meet new people and make new friends but as far as anything physical is concerned... right now we dont think we will make a good match... thank you for your interest.. good luck and have fun! "

End of story... dont drag things out.. if this is all about attraction and chemistry lay it on the line right away....


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