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Question: I'm married and a single male is not respecting this

Dear Lounge Advice,
Hey I have a SM who calles 3 times a day, when ever he sees us on line.
We went out on one, only one date, just dinner, and he seems to be forgeting that I'm marred- and in a very happy marrage.
All his emails are ment for me and he makes it a point to call when he knows my hubby is gone.
What do I do? I emailed him asking why he calls so much, but he had not responded. If you want to see what I said, I'll copy it to you later.
It seems like he wants to start a relationship with only me- not ok!!! This is just fun, I HAVE a relationship already- you know what I'm talking about.
We are still new to all this, and are having a blast meeting people- just not this guy.
How do I get him to understand- it's just sex that we are looking for, and not a new husband!!
Thanks :)



Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Well, I just had to deal with this very issues, except it was a single female.
You need to tell him exactly what you said to me. Tell him that you have a relationship already and that he's being very inappropriate by doing what he is doing. He may not realize that he's acting inappropriately, so it's important that you speak up.
He may KNOW that he's crossing the line. In this case, it's even more important that you speak up because he needs to know that this type of behavior will NOT be tolerated and he cannot conduct himself in this manner.
Be firm with this guy or he will continue to think that it's okay for him to do these things. If you do not speak up, you will only have yourself to blame. Do not condone this type of behavior. Actions like his need to be called out.
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