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Question: Epiphany

Hi Robyn~
Thanks for being here for Us~
Just out of a monogamous relationship-(the first monogamous one
I've actually every been in!), and finding myself ENTIRELY uninterested in anyone, sexually; until today, that is...here; which in turn makes me, well, at least feel, quite useless, as, if I'm not moved to give, then I feel rather a box o' rocks! All is bereft of meaning if I am not doing for another.
I had an epiphany of sorts. I remembered what it actually feels like to become aroused spontaneously. I was quite pleased, as preposterous as that likely sounds.
I guess I am simply 'normalising', and wondering what advice you might proffer that I go through this transition both learning and serving myself and own personal growth, as well as whomever else might be touched, as best I might.

Yours,
with the trust
of a Child~

(and VERY dramatic, Darling!)

N

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

It sounds like you're already following your heart and feelings, and that's all you should continue to do.
My advice, or that of any others will probably be a hindrance to you at this point. Just keep in touch with what you're feeling!
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