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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
How do I reel him back in or can I?
What say you?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
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What can a SM do in the crazy world of LA swing?
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Question: Epiphany

Hi Robyn~
Thanks for being here for Us~
Just out of a monogamous relationship-(the first monogamous one
I've actually every been in!), and finding myself ENTIRELY uninterested in anyone, sexually; until today, that is...here; which in turn makes me, well, at least feel, quite useless, as, if I'm not moved to give, then I feel rather a box o' rocks! All is bereft of meaning if I am not doing for another.
I had an epiphany of sorts. I remembered what it actually feels like to become aroused spontaneously. I was quite pleased, as preposterous as that likely sounds.
I guess I am simply 'normalising', and wondering what advice you might proffer that I go through this transition both learning and serving myself and own personal growth, as well as whomever else might be touched, as best I might.

with the trust
of a Child~

(and VERY dramatic, Darling!)




Dear (Anonymous),

It sounds like you're already following your heart and feelings, and that's all you should continue to do.
My advice, or that of any others will probably be a hindrance to you at this point. Just keep in touch with what you're feeling!
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