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Question: New and not getting responses

Dear Lounge Advice,
we are new to this scene. We have sent out some emails, tried some online discussions and have put up some pics of ourselves and have heard from no one! We think we are pretty good looking and in shape and we have put thought into our profile answers. Are we doing something wrong or offensive? What is a typical response time? How do we get 'in' to this?



Dear (Anonymous),

Actually, it's probably nothing to do with you personally.
1) You said you put up pics, but they're not there anymore. This will be a HUGE hindrance to you if you keep your pics down.
2) Your location is a big factor. You're in Canada and there simply aren't many Canadian members here, unless you've stated that you're willing to travel.

Due to your location, you will have to be very patient. Or, you may want to start researching some sites that cater to swingers in your particular area. Just a thought.
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