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Question: New and wondering how to meet others

Dear Lounge Advice,
we r new and want to start out slow....whats the best way to meet people without making a full swap commitment



Dear (Anonymous),

You never have to make a committment to anything. Nobody should expect anything from you either. This is all about going according to your own pace and seeking others who accept that. If you haven't done so already, state exactly what you're seeking in your profile.
If you want to get out and meet people without feeling pressured, try going to a swingers' meet and greet. Or, go to a swing club and just observe. In any of these venues, you can meet people at your own pace. Remember, you are always in control and most people will respect your boundaries.
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