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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
My fantasy is simply being with a man that wants to be with 'only me' and loves me most of the time. I really don't think he does any more.
How can I help her to feel more comfortable about returning to the lifestyle?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
How do we expand and see more near us ?
I was thinking to try to meet a girl on the site to go to parties with, any advice?
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Question: New and wondering how to meet others

Dear Lounge Advice,
we r new and want to start out slow....whats the best way to meet people without making a full swap commitment

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

You never have to make a committment to anything. Nobody should expect anything from you either. This is all about going according to your own pace and seeking others who accept that. If you haven't done so already, state exactly what you're seeking in your profile.
If you want to get out and meet people without feeling pressured, try going to a swingers' meet and greet. Or, go to a swing club and just observe. In any of these venues, you can meet people at your own pace. Remember, you are always in control and most people will respect your boundaries.
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