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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
My fantasy is simply being with a man that wants to be with 'only me' and loves me most of the time. I really don't think he does any more.
How can I help her to feel more comfortable about returning to the lifestyle?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
How do we expand and see more near us ?
I was thinking to try to meet a girl on the site to go to parties with, any advice?
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Question: Breaking the ice to play- who should lead?

Dear Lounge Advice, What is the best way to break the ice and start playing with a new couple you like? Like in dancing, should men always lead the way?



Dear (Anonymous),

Nope. I think that anyone can lead the way. My personal preference is for the woman to initiate things because it tells me that she's not just following along with what her man wants. Unfortunately, I've seen this happen more than a few times.
If the girls are bisexual, that is always a great way to kickstart the play. That's usually how I have seen in done, and it has always worked well.

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