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Question: Breaking the ice to play- who should lead?
Dear Lounge Advice, What is the best way to break the ice and start playing with a new couple you like? Like in dancing, should men always lead the way?
Nope. I think that anyone can lead the way. My personal preference is for the woman to initiate things because it tells me that she's not just following along with what her man wants. Unfortunately, I've seen this happen more than a few times.
If the girls are bisexual, that is always a great way to kickstart the play. That's usually how I have seen in done, and it has always worked well.
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