Dear Lounge Advice, We are not getting any dates from LSL Could it be that we are 'soft swap' or our age. We can assure you that we r hot, don't look our age and have several full swap friends who love our company and what we bring to the table or should we say bed. Any suggestions on how to meet new folks would be greatly appreciated! B & L Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), I don't believe that your age is a big factor. Soft swap does tend to limit your opportunities, but still not an overwhelming hindrance. You would benefit from adding more photos of your Mr. Us ladies want to see what we are getting in the bargain. You might also want to consider just getting out to the parties to meet people in person. Sometimes it can be easier that way. We actually have more luck at the events than online, especially in our area. In the meantime, just keep doing the footwork of contacting profiles here. Persistance will pay off for you in the long run. Don't give up!