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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
My fantasy is simply being with a man that wants to be with 'only me' and loves me most of the time. I really don't think he does any more.
How can I help her to feel more comfortable about returning to the lifestyle?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
How do we expand and see more near us ?
I was thinking to try to meet a girl on the site to go to parties with, any advice?
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Question: Should I give him the real seal?

I have a vanilla male friend that I play with on and off for about two year. he know I am in the life style, 3 month ago i suggested to him to join LL he said no he was not Intrested because there is enought single men on hear he did not want to be another. few days ago i got email from him telling me he is going to join LL I say ok,then another email that said i just join here is my screen name


WENT TO CHECK OUT HIS PROFILE IT SAID HE HAS BEEN A MEMBER FOR 3 MONTH. NOW HE IS ASKING ME TO VERIFY HIM..SHOULD I..
don"t know why he would lied to me about something that simple I am just a friend. I email and ask him why did he tell me he just join when clearly it show how long he has been a member, of course his reply back was what you doing tonight? are you going to Verify me..


Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Hmm.
I say that you should just press the issue a bit more and find out why he was lying to you.
If this is someone you can't trust, then you shouldn't feel obligated to verify him.

After all, when giving the real seal to another, I personally feel that if someone is willing to lie, then we shouldn't be certifying them.
I don't know the whole story, but from the feeling I'm getting, it just sounds like he is trying to use you.
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