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Question: SM looking for seal and FWB

Dear Lounge Advice,

I am a single male looking to become involved in the lifestyle. To make sure I am appropriate, how do I respectfully ask for a REAL certification? Does a couple or other single need to see that I am real first?

Also, I am interested in a relationship/FWB with a female who is currently single and interested in the lifestyle. I figured this would open up options for the both of us. And it is always great to make new friends!

Any guidance or am I just dreaming?



Dear (Anonymous),

On finding an eligible female who is interested in joining you for lifestyle fun, please consult the advice archives. This is a very common question that you will find a lot of feedback on already in the archives.

To get your real seal, somebody has to have met you. If you have met anyone, you can ask them to seal you.
If not, go to the homepage. On the right hand side, click on 'Special Features'. There you will find a link entitled "Ar You for Real? Then Prove It". That will provide instructions for getting sealed without having to meet another member.
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