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Question: He's upset with me b/c I can't find a single female

Dear Lounge Advice,

My Love and I have been in the lifestyle for about a year+, during our relationship he constantly was cheating on me so we decided that if we were involved in the lifestyle he would have no reason to cheat! seems as he needs to have variety! We have been involved with a few couples and has been very enjoyable, however he is becoming very upset and disappointed with me for not being able to find 1 or 2 single girls to enjoy an evening with (Ultimate Fantasy for him)! He's birthday is coming up and NO single women have replied, I'm actually very nervous for I don't want to disappoint him any further.

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Why are you catering to a man who has cheated on you AND is upset with you because he can't get his girl/girl fantasy?
What is this man's priority, you or the sex with others?
I think that you need to be more worried about the importance he places on you and this relationship, rather than tryng to appease him with another woman in bed. Single women are hard for ALL of us to find. So, if this is continues to be the case with you too, how will he react? Will this be your fault that single women don't respond to you, even though most of us have this same problem?
Quit worrying about how he will react if he doesn't get his way. You've already gone further than most people would, or should. Stand up for yourself and quit allowing him to make you feel this way.


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