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Question: 686 e-mails the first week?

Dear Lounge Advice,

I was on another swinger website with my bf and he sent out 686 emails the first week and a half on the site. I think this is a red flag. When I talked to him about it he said,it was likely we will get many responses. Being new to this I am not sure whether to believe him or writh him off as being a player and/or desperate. Any insight?

Contradictions24

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Well yes, this does seem VERY excessive. I have heard of some overzealous first-timers, but this is a home run.
I'm a fan of the law of averages, but....WOW!
This reminds us of a single male who got himself a girlfriend who is open to the swinger lifestyle and now has a better chance of getting some action. That's just speaking from pure 'gut', of course.
E-mailing 686 people certain indicates that he wasn't too choosy about who to contact.

Have a talk with your eager little beaver and tell him to cool his jets. You need to be a part of the communication process too, and this includes making the decision about the people you contact.
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