Single female motivation Dear Lounge Advice, My husband and I are new to the lifestyle and absolutely love it. We're starting with soft swap only or single females. My question is about single females. Why would they chose the lifestyle option over a relationship of their own or (for bisexual gals) why not go to a gay bar for play? I’d love to see my husband fuck another woman but I’m a little nervous to bring a single female into the mix because I don’t understand why they wouldn’t want their own man. I would have put this in the forum but I wanted to be anonymous. Mrs. Anonymous Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), I'll post this in the forum for you- anonymous under my account. I have some thoughts on this, being that I was a single female when I first got into the lifestyle, but I think it best for our LL singles to answer this for you.