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Does this make me a cuckold?
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Lifestyle Etiquette
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My fantasy is simply being with a man that wants to be with 'only me' and loves me most of the time. I really don't think he does any more.
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Question: What is a single female's motivation?

Single female motivation

Dear Lounge Advice,

My husband and I are new to the lifestyle and absolutely love it. We're starting with soft swap only or single females.

My question is about single females. Why would they chose the lifestyle option over a relationship of their own or (for bisexual gals) why not go to a gay bar for play? Iíd love to see my husband fuck another woman but Iím a little nervous to bring a single female into the mix because I donít understand why they wouldnít want their own man.

I would have put this in the forum but I wanted to be anonymous.

Mrs. Anonymous

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

I'll post this in the forum for you- anonymous under my account.

I have some thoughts on this, being that I was a single female when I first got into the lifestyle, but I think it best for our LL singles to answer this for you.
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