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Question: Is it inappropriate for us to advertise for a SF to accompany us?

Dear Lounge Advice,
Is it inapropriate to advertise on LL classifieds for a single female from LL to accompany us on an all expense paid trip to Las Vegas?

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Yes, I feel that it is.

Also, if you are offering to pay for a single female's trip, you are essentially placing her in an awkward situation (should she accept).
Anyone who takes you up on this offer will feel obliged to sleep with you.


Although you may not wish to convey this, she may feel a bit weird. This offer may do you more harm than good.
You are better off waiting for a single female's interest, *then* offer her all-expenses paid. Even if you do offer her this, you may want to put an addendum on that offer-
"Hey, we'd love to pay for your stay and transportation since we're the ones asking you to come. However, PLEASE do not feel obligated to us in any way if you take us up on this offer. We'd love your company, and if you wish to do nothing more than accompany us on this trip, we're okay with that".


IF you are looking for a guaranteed FMF, then do not offer to pay her way. This may be very insulting to a woman of principle.

Tread lightly with this endeavor.
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