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Question: Polite way to convey that you're not a match

Dear Lounge Advice,
I have shared several emails with someone as well as all pics. What if when we meet I am not feeling it and do not want to persue them any further? What is the nicest and most polite way to say that we are not a match?



Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

You say exactly that. Send a nice e-mail like this one (but only if they continue pursuing you):

It was great to meet you! (insert compliment here) I don't want to lead you on, so I just wanted to let you know that I didn't feel a physical connection and it would be fair to let you know so you don't waste your time on me. Even though we didn't turn out to be a match, I hope you have great luck as you continue your search for fun times. :)

Happy swinging!

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