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Question: I told my vanilla friends about the LS

Dear Lounge Advice,

I messed up and told my vanilla girlfriends about the lifestyle. Stupid in retrospect, but the Mr and I are so excited about finding it. We've made some fun friends and actually do activities besides sex.

At first they were intrigued. Now they think I'm demented. Been friends with this gals over 25 years. Do you have a suggestion to salvage the friendships?




Dear (Anonymous),

You don't need to salvage anything. If they are truly friends, they will get over it accept it as part of you.
They don't have to like it, but if they treat you differently because of it, perhaps you need to just ask them if they're willing to compromise a long friendship because you felt that you could share something with them.
I have told a couple of my close vanilla friends. They may not agree with it, but they don't treat me one ounce differently than they did before.

THAT is how friends should operate.
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