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Question: Leave or confront?

Dear Lounge Advice,

What do you do if your fiance says he wants a traditional relationship, asks you to marry him, and then you find out he is on this website without telling you. He and his exwife swung, and their marriage ended due to her leaving for the man they were having sex with. He said he would never be involved again, and yet..........

What should I do?

Leave or confront?


Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

What do YOU want to do?

Do you think that you could ever trust him again after this?

Do you think he can step away from all of this and never look back?

Do you want to marry a man who you now doubt?

Do you want to carry these concerns with you for a long time to come?

Confront first. You have the right to know what the hell is going on.
Depending on the outcome of that, you will have to keep all of the questions I just asked you at the forefront of your mind. Do not let them go easily, and do not try to lie to yourself about any of this. Make him fully accountable for 100% of this, and if you still feel that you cannot fully trust, then you must make the decision that is best for you .
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