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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
How do I reel him back in or can I?
What say you?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
Any thoughts? Any resources, swinger sites, clubs, well-known
What can a SM do in the crazy world of LA swing?
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Question: How do I get noticed?

Dear Lounge Advice,

I'm new to the site - is there a section that can tell me how and or get noticed? Is it that we are in a remote location or is it because I don't know what I'm doing?



Dear (Anonymous),

You are on THE best site for those residing in Minnesota. Since LL is based out of your state, you have a huge advantage right from the get-go. I looked at your profile and you have a great array of pictures.
Perhaps what you need is some time and a more aggressive attitude. Don't sit back and wait to get noticed. Dive in and start contacting other members. Read the profiles and start by giving them a compliment on something you have read. Not only will this be a nice personalized way to introduce yourselves, but it will show them that you took the time to read their profile before e-mailing them. Flattery is always a plus if you are genuine about it.
Remember, there are plenty of people out there sitting back and waiting for the inbox to fill. You need to take initiative. If too many people wait for other to contact them, you can make a pretty good inference that nothing is going to get done.
Be proactive and do the work. Your results will surely be many times better this way.
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