Dear Lounge Advice, I saw that you gave some advice to XXXXX about their profile and we'd love it if you can do the same for us. We're new to the site as well, we thought our profile was pretty good, and we do get out and write people or try to message folks when they're online. Got any advice on what about our page could be turning people off? Thanks so much for your help. - CnJ Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), Your profile is pretty darn comprehensive. You have myriad things about yourselves and your desires. Your photo album has a nice mix of pictures of you both. One thing I'd recommend is having him fill out a few additional questions as well, since yours are quite comprehensive and his are lacking. As for reasons you're not getting so many matches right now- Well, you are new. Usually, it takes a while of persistance and reaching out to build up momentum and get some bites. Just remember, the couple you may be contacting may be seeking specific things, and you may not be a part of their criteria. This isn't anything personal. Different strokes for different folks, right? It takes a while to find a good match. I've been doing this for almost 12 years now, and I've found that it takes a lot of patience and hard work to find a good 'lust interest'. Remember how hard regular dating was? Well, multiply that by two and you'll have a better understanding of the matchmaking odds. Don't give up. Eventually you will meet people, form a good reputation and that will follow you around and lead you to more success.