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Question: How to approach?

Dear Lounge Advice,

I'm fairly new here (a SM) and have been invited to join a few couples so far, which I didn't expect to happen so quickly. Because I'm new and don't want to come across as "pushy", I lay low on these dates and let the F make the first move. I also ask at that time if it is cool with the M before proceeding. Is this the right way to approach playtime? On one had, I don't want to come across as "pushy" but on the other hand I worry that it may be interpreted that I'm not into the woman.

Thanks.

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

You have the right idea. Let her initiate the play, and then make sure the man is okay with it.
Great manners :)
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