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Question: Common LS Lingo

Dear Lounge Advice,

A list of common lifestyle terms would be helpful for the newbies!

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Even swingers have their own lingo! If you’re new to couples dating and need to figure out your way around lifestyle terminology, here’s a simple guide to help you interpret common profile buzzwords.


420
Drug Friendly

AIRTIGHT
A female that simultaneously engages in vaginal, anal and oral intercourse. (i.e. All holes filled)

BBW
Big, beautiful woman

BDSM
The practice of being physically restrained, as with cords or handcuffs, as a means of attaining sexual gratification. The person who is bound is considered "submissive," while the other person who is doing the binding "dominant." also: B&D, BDSM

BIF
Bi Female

BI-COMFORTABLE
This usually implies that someone doesn't mind being playful around the same sex, or that they are okay with having a bisexual individual around them during play. Bi comfortable individuals sometimes don't even mind having the same gender go down on them. They just don't wish to reciprocate.

BI-CURIOUS
Any individual who has an interest in their own gender for sexual play

BISEXUAL
Any individual who is attracted to both sexes and enjoys sexual activity or relationships with both sexes

D/D FREE
Drug/disease free

DP
Double Penetration- One penis in the front and one in the back at the same time. Or, one penis in the front and a toy in the rear.

DVP
Double Vaginal Penetration- Two toys, one toy/one penis, or two penises

ED
Erectile performance issues due to medical or psychological issues. This is also sometimes called “Stage Fright” in the Lifestyle.

FMF
A threesome with two women and one man

FULL SWAP
Full exchange of partners including full penetration

FWB
Friends With Benefits

HARD CORE
A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected

HWP
Height Weight Proportionate

LIFESTYLE
A way of life or choice of living where couples are willing to participate in sexual activities with other partners outside of their relationship

LS
Lifestyle

MILF
Mom I'd Like to F***

NSA
No Strings Attached- These couples usually intend only to engage in play and not necessarily in friendship or any emotional ties.

SF
Single Female

SM
Single Male

SOFT SWAP
Full Exchange of partners that includes all form of play except for penetration.

STD
Sexually transmitted disease

MFM
A threesome with two men and one woman

NEWBIE
Anyone who is fairly new to swinging

UNICORN
The elusive single female swinger

VANILLA
Refers to the general population that doesn't swing

VOYEUR
A person who enjoys and is stimulated by watching others in sexual activities

YIM
Yahoo Instant Messenger

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