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Question: Betrayed

Dear Lounge Advice,

my wife and i played for sometime with one of your members ,we had a great time and became friends. Later I learned that my wife was seeing him without me and without my consent. i feel betrayed by both of them. why would she do this ?

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

You should feel betrayed, because you were.

Why would she do this?
I can't answer this for you. Only she can. This is a critical time for you both.

Get off of this site and step away from swinging. You both have some major damage control to do within your relationship and this lifestyle should not be a part of it for a long time.

You need to fix your foundation, and she needs to prove that she can be trusted again.
This doesn't happen quickly. If she cannot be trusted, this lifestyle is not for you both.

Best wishes to you both in this endeavor.
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