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Question: Since my wife quit drinking she has lost interest in women, how can I get her interested again?

Dear Lounge Advice,
When I first met my wife she explained to me that she was bi. We have been in the lifestyle together now for about 6 years (married 3). We used to party and then play,if you know what I mean. Now, she has been sober for 7 months and seems to have lost interest. Although I still enjoy a drink now and again(and she is cool with that), she seems to lack the enthusiasm she once had. Any thoughts on what might want her to get involved again?



Dear (Anonymous),

Seems like the alcohol was making her less inhibited or masking some fears that she had. She has to want to get involved now without the need of drugs.

Sounds like you need to communicate with her more about the issue... and what her concerns are.. what her issues are... what she really wants...

And most of all... support her in whatever that may be... being an active bisexual should not be a prerequisite for your marriage...
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