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Question: Etiquette for meeting a male for MFM

Dear Lounge Advice,

Etiquette for meeting a male for MFM.

My husband and I have never had an MFM. We have only been with couples. However, we've found someone of interest and would like to meet him. Normally, if we go out and end up getting a room for the evenings events, depending on who the couple is, we'll get a double bed room and all just stay in one room. With a single male, it's different... do we expect him to stay after? Does he get his own room to stay in after? How do these evenings commonly end?

Thank you!



Dear (Anonymous),

Usually, if he plans on staying at the hotel, he should get his own room and retire there after you've had your fun. You should pay for your room and he should pay for his.
He may opt to just go home afterwards, which is perfectly normal too. It's very ncommon for a single male to stay overnight in the same room with the couple he has played with.
Just ask him beforehand what his preference is.
From my experience, the man always leaves and goes his own way after play.
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