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Question: Just wondering your thoughts about wanting to play separately?

Dear Lounge Advice, Just wondering your thoughts about wanting to play separately, I have single men I would love to play with my hubby gets very upset, the option is open for himself, but he thinks it should be with couples only. As you know it is sometimes difficult to find 4 that all have the same chemistry Hugs Lana

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

To us the Lifestyle is something that we take part in as a couple for our enjoyment as a couple and not individually. Thats what works for us.

We understand that others are ok with other ways and we respect others choices... but we do not really see much different between playing individually and cheating... is the only difference that your spouse knows that you are doing it????

Whenever straight friends ask how we can allow each other to have sex with others we always explain to them that this is something we do as a couple and we both enjoy not only getting and giving pleasure... but watching each other as well.

We know this sounds alittle crude.. but in a sense we are really just using others to get more excited about being with each other.

We never are more than an arms length from each other.

That is not to say it will not work for you guys.. but based on how you are explaining your hubby's thoughts... doesnt seem like he is that keen on the idea either.

Talk it over between you two.. what works for us doesnt really matter. Only the two of you matter.
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