Dear Lounge Advice, Me and my husband have emailed and tryied talking to over 50 or some people on here, no one has atempted to respond back or even buddy that has emailed us to tell us they are interested... What are we doing wrong? Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), You are seeking the elusive single female. That's why. MANY people here seek that, yet single females are few and far between. You will have to be very patient and persistant. You have a lot of competition and the single ladies have the pick of the litter. Find a way to stand out so that you have an edge. The best way to stick out to single women is to approach them with friendship first. If they feel that they are just being pursued for a quick night of sex, they may not warm up to you.