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Question: Advice for newcomers

Dear Lounge Advice,
We are very new to this site and to the lifestyle but are not having any luck. We have been mailing out lots of E-mails and giving compliments of other's photo's but all we get are single males. Do you have any advice for new members who wish to break into the couples scene? We are open to criticism as well as ideas. Thanks Valerie and Peter.



Dear (Anonymous),

So far, you are doing the right thing by being proactive and e-mailing others. The pictures of the lady are great, but there is only one of him. Here is what I suggest:
Too often, a coupleís profile is jam-packed with tantalizing photos of the female, but nothing of the male. Remember, the ladies want a sneak peak at what the male has to offer as well.
You have only been here for a week. Sometimes matchmaking takes some time. You'll find that this process usually doesn't produce instantaeous results.
One key thing that I see in your profile that may be causing others to be hesitant is that you are not Real-Sealed yet.
In order to be validated as real couple, you must either meet another validated member who can vouch for you, or you can send in a photo to the webmaster showing both of you holding a sign with your username and the date on it. Or, a member wishing to get validated can attend a site sponsored event to earn a seal. Validation seals help to put others at ease when corresponding with you, so it is prudent to be verified right off the bat if possible.

These are the key things that stick out to me upon first glance.
There are a LOT of tips in the advice archives for newcomers to the lifestyle. I recommend reading up on some of the previous advice offered to get a better understanding of how to proceed. Good luck and come on back to me if I can answer anything for you.
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