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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
My fantasy is simply being with a man that wants to be with 'only me' and loves me most of the time. I really don't think he does any more.
How can I help her to feel more comfortable about returning to the lifestyle?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
How do we expand and see more near us ?
I was thinking to try to meet a girl on the site to go to parties with, any advice?
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Question: Single female- How not to feel like a 3rd wheel

Dear Lounge Advice,

As a single female, how do you not feel like a third wheel?



Dear (Anonymous),

"Third wheel" has a negative connotation to it.
That usually implies that the 'third' is the person who doesn't quite fit into the action or puts a damper on a couple's social activities. The third wheel is usually only around out of feeling of obligation or pity.

You are not a third wheel when you are invited into playtime, or even out on a date as company.
Especially as a single female, you are very sought after and generally treated very well when a couple has a chance to be with you.

So, the third wheel you are perceiving yourself to be is all in your head. To not feel like a third wheel, you need to change your mindset and realize that you put the 'three' in threesome, and that's a wonderful thing in this lifestyle.

So be more confident and know that you are incredibly desired and far from the obligatory person that someone else has to endure.
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