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Question: Single female- How not to feel like a 3rd wheel
Dear Lounge Advice,
As a single female, how do you not feel like a third wheel?
"Third wheel" has a negative connotation to it.
That usually implies that the 'third' is the person who doesn't quite fit into the action or puts a damper on a couple's social activities. The third wheel is usually only around out of feeling of obligation or pity.
You are not a third wheel when you are invited into playtime, or even out on a date as company.
Especially as a single female, you are very sought after and generally treated very well when a couple has a chance to be with you.
So, the third wheel you are perceiving yourself to be is all in your head. To not feel like a third wheel, you need to change your mindset and realize that you put the 'three' in threesome, and that's a wonderful thing in this lifestyle.
So be more confident and know that you are incredibly desired and far from the obligatory person that someone else has to endure.
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