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Question: Singles- Swingers or not?

Dear Lounge Advice,
i was told the other day since i was a single male i could not be a swinger but only a guest!!!!! i know SM threads are brought up alot in the forums . but please can you tell evrybody who can be a swinger and who can not be one? i was all ways told that if you play with more then one person of leagel age that is you are a swinger,no matter what sex you are or if your in a relationship or single .



Dear (Anonymous),

Why does classification matter so much? This is a matter of semantics and can be a topic of heated discourse, but again, terminology shouldn't define your experiences.

It is completely irrelevant nor germaine to the lifestyle as to what your particular definition within it is, or what any singleton/couple uses to delineate anyone else. Anyone who excogitates on this to ANY extent is worrying about a noun someone used to elicit a proscribed response, and we can guarantee there are far more important things to dwell on than petty concerns about vocabulary cataloguing.

The bottom line on this? Who cares.
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