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Question: She slept with her ex- What should I do now?

Dear Lounge Advice,

What do I do when she has gone outside our relationship and slept with an ex because she claims he fed her some pills? I've tried to give her opportunities through here for any promiscuity(sp) and enjoy being apart of it. But for some reason she apparently feels like she has to lie and deceive me and "do her own thing".....

How should I respond/react?

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

You should react by removing yourselves from the lifestyle for the time being until you feel you can trust her again.

You two need to have a very deep conversation about this trust issue.
Perhaps if she realizes that she had freedom and ruined it, she will know what she has lost with her betrayal.

Tell her you have lost trust. Be honest about how you feel. She needs to know this, and without sugar-coating.
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