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Question: Declining a friend's attempt to match me up

Dear Lounge Advice,
what do you do when some body is trying to set you up with a person that is not your type? you tell that person no thanks.and that person keeps trying,saying that the person would love to get with you. but you insist that person stops trying to play coupid.
i have talked to the person that wants to get set up ,and found out that this person has a better half but not married and not in LL. wow big stop sing i say ,do not want that type of drama .
but the person that is trying to set me up still is trying and just will not take no for any reason !!! so please what do i do?



Dear (Anonymous),

Well, you have three choices here:

1) Just meet the person in question to be polite, then indicate your non-interest. This is a shaky route if you're not sure about her spouse's knowledge of this.

2) Avoid the advances for as long as you can, and hopefully he'll get the hint.

3) Be firthright and tell your friend that you're just not interested.
You said you don't want the drama, so plead your case and let your friend know that you don't feel comfortable with this.

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