Dear Lounge Advice, The last few emails sent to me were unsent by the sender. This has me confused. Why do they do this? Is there something wrong with my profile that they send the mail, realize something about my profile, then unsend it? I'm paranoid now. Anonymous Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), There could be a multitude of reasons that this could be. Perhaps a woman e-mailed you without her husband's knowledge. Perhaps another single male responded to them sooner, so they cut communication with others. Maybe they just changed their minds for personal reasons. It wouldn't be considered rude to politely ask somebody if they are still interested since they sent an e-mail initially. You could inquire if you did something to offend.