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Question: Soft swing

Dear Lounge Advice,
There's a poll out. asking what does soft swing(no swap) mean. I am curious and have no idea.

Nan

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

TO the vast majority of people we have met in the Lifestyle over the years, the most common definition of soft swap is having sex with people other than your spouse including everything except for actual penetration. Full Swap would naturally include penetration.

The only problem is that some definitions do differ.. so the best thing to do if someone says they are only into Soft Swap is to say... "Oh so you mean you only.." and confirm that you are all on the same page
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