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Question: Finding out how promiscous another couple is

Dear Lounge Advice,
How does one tactfully find out how promiscuous a couple is before playing? We do not want to be with couples who sleep around a lot, does this sound ridiculous in the lifestyle?


Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

This is hard to answer without knowing your reasons for wanting this information.

Is it because you are afraid of diseases?
Is it because you don't just want to be a piece of meat to them?
Or is it because you want a patient couple who will understand your lack of lifestyle experience?

Truly, this is one of the questions that you can ask another couple without breaching etiquette. Just casually bring it up in conversation and ask how often they swing. But like I mentioned before, your reasons for wanting to know will help me coach you on the best way to word this approach.
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