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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
My fantasy is simply being with a man that wants to be with 'only me' and loves me most of the time. I really don't think he does any more.
How can I help her to feel more comfortable about returning to the lifestyle?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
We are new to this site and the lifestyle.
How do we expand and see more near us ?
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Question: Too much emphasis on the LS?

Dear Lounge Advice, my huband tends to revolve his plans around the lifestyle.When there is a family function that should take priority he seems to show resentment for the inconvenience.should i be concerned being is that this is only a perk for US not the glue for the relationship.When is it considered an obsession?? sincerely bianca



Dear (Anonymous),

This sounds like it could just be a case of being overly giddy.

Many of us would prefer a LS function over a family event (me included).

We all work all week, and frankly, the LS is FUN.

I don't blame him, but perhaps you may want to talk to him about being TOO overly enthusiastic, especially if it's putting a damper on your other plans.

If it becomes an obsession, you WILL know. I've seen cases of LS obsession and this doesn't seem to fit the bill.

Just talk to him ;)
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