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Question: Advice to single males.

Dear Lounge Advice,

I am interested in your opinion and insight into the place for a muture, single guy in the lifestyle?

Clearly it is a matter of the limited opportunities and making those connections.

Do you have another other thoughts about single guys (who have average physical endowments-LOL!!)





Dear (Anonymous),

This is from our site:
There is definitely a place in the lifestyle for single males.... but the vast majority of single men are believers in "the myth."

The myth is that all swingers want a single male to join them. The truth is that there are a few.... but they are only a very small minority. The rest of us have to deal with the never-ending barrage of IM's and Emails from single males who just don't get it. There are many single males who are very respectful and they are a breath of fresh air and usually well liked.

If you are a single male.... don't believe the myth.... be respectful and understand how often couples are bothered by other rude single males.....and better yet.....find a mate and join the fun!

We are sure that single men read this and don't understand why many couples like us have such little patience with them. Just imagine if day after day you got IM's and emails several times from bi males even though you are straight. You would lose patience too.

If someone can't find a woman to have sex with... dont just assume you can find someone else's wife to play with.

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