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Question: New and low success thus far

Dear Lounge Advice,

we're new to this scene and we haven't been getting many replies....what can we do to improve our results?

we have recent pics posted, we're both in good shape and attractive, and our page contains plenty of info about us.

any help would be greatly appreciated!





Dear (Anonymous),

Your profile looks good and it looks like you recently got your Real Seal. The Real Seal will go a long way in your quest.

I think this is a simple answer- You are new to the scene, and it takes time to get the ball rolling. It's good that you are taking the initiative to make the first contact. Some people expect others just to come to them. Keep reaching out and you will find success.

Also, if you are willing to travel, this will greatly expand your chances of meeting people.
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