Dear Lounge Advice, We are new to the lifestyle and this site and have yet attended any type of party/event....my question is this. I am a sexy non smoker,good looking, hot, fun, funny, educated, love both men and women and am married to a super hot 42 year old....I am 49 - great tan, healthy, nice T&A but slightly overweight (loosing more everyday). Anyone else like me physically...we have visions of only perfect bodies everywhere and have held back from getting started. Thanks c Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), Just take a look around on the site. You'll see that your illusions of perfect people are incorrect, thank goodness. In fact, you'll find that there are MANY more "normal" people in the lifestyle than the model types you are envisioning. Now go have fun!