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Question: Single male starting out
Dear Lounge Advice,
I have just signed on a couple of days ago and have sent numerous emails outasking for advice as to how to enter this new lifestyle. Nothing has happened yet and I am beginning to wilt at the prospect of meeting new couples. I admit that I would love to makelove to a woman in front of her man but it seems to be a dream for me.
I heard that there are meet and greets that I may go to. Where do I find out about them and do I need to be invited? If so, how do I go about that?
You're a single male. I recommend that you first read up on single males and their role in the lifestyle. You will find that a lack of patience will be a downfall for you in this lifestyle. To be concise, there are MANY single males in or lifestyle seeking exactly what you are seeking. This means that you must stand out. Look at the advice archives to see how to accomplish this.
A few days on the site with no luck is normal. If you're willing to stick it out and do your research, then you are on the rigtht path. If you're looking for an easy 'in', then you'll be in the failing group of single men.
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