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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
My fantasy is simply being with a man that wants to be with 'only me' and loves me most of the time. I really don't think he does any more.
How can I help her to feel more comfortable about returning to the lifestyle?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
How do we expand and see more near us ?
I was thinking to try to meet a girl on the site to go to parties with, any advice?
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Question: Single male starting out

Dear Lounge Advice,

I have just signed on a couple of days ago and have sent numerous emails outasking for advice as to how to enter this new lifestyle. Nothing has happened yet and I am beginning to wilt at the prospect of meeting new couples. I admit that I would love to makelove to a woman in front of her man but it seems to be a dream for me.

I heard that there are meet and greets that I may go to. Where do I find out about them and do I need to be invited? If so, how do I go about that?



Dear (Anonymous),

You're a single male. I recommend that you first read up on single males and their role in the lifestyle. You will find that a lack of patience will be a downfall for you in this lifestyle. To be concise, there are MANY single males in or lifestyle seeking exactly what you are seeking. This means that you must stand out. Look at the advice archives to see how to accomplish this.

A few days on the site with no luck is normal. If you're willing to stick it out and do your research, then you are on the rigtht path. If you're looking for an easy 'in', then you'll be in the failing group of single men.
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