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Question: LS friendly counselor

Dear Lounge Advice,

My wife and I had agreed to separate 7 years ago when we found a good marriage counselor and then found the Lifestyle. We never separated and the years that followed were the best of our marriage.

The problems that almost split us up, which stem from her depression and lack of self esteem, have resurfaced over the past couple of years. Her libido, happiness, trust, and interest in the Lifestyle has diminished as she her insecurity has grown.

We've agreed to get back into counseling, but I'm wary about going to a counselor that doesn't understand the Lifestyle and erroneously blames it for our problems.

How can I find a Lifestyle friendly marriage counselor in our area (Thousand Oaks, CA)?



Dear (Anonymous),

May I please post your query in the forum? Also, check my profile for a couple of great lifestyle friendly counselors.. E-mail me if it is okay to post his anonymously in the forum.
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