Dear Lounge Advice, In a relationship that lets me be wild and try new things which I truly enjoy. Trying to find local places in or around Raleigh, NC for me and my man to go and be with others who are looking to try new things. I do not think we are ready for "the House" want to start off with bar like atmosphere know of any places like that? Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), I know of the good places in Charlotte since we lived there for a few years. When it came to Raleigh, it was either hotel parties or clubs. I'm not in the loop about local bars that might be LS friendly. I recommend contacting a few profiles local to Raleigh to ask them if they know of anything. That's how we did it when we moved to North Dallas, and most people were very helpful.