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Question: Not respecting my limits

Dear Lounge Advice,

I Love my girl like crazy, but she doesn't always respect my limits. I feel that I am liberal with our rules. How can I get her to not go too far?

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

You can only do so much, and you can't make her do anything. She can only make herself see how you feel. You need to just tell her your feelings about this and that when she pushes the boundaries, she is disrespecting your wishes. If it take a couple of times to get it into her head, don't be afraid to keep pursuing the subject. Maybe if she realizes that in time, the limits can be expanded, she'll be more patient.
If she still doesn't want to budge, then you may have to propose staying away from the lifestyle to avoid this recurring problem. Maybe a bit of perspective about the consequences of repeated actions will help her understand what she has and what can be lost.
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