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Question: Single female wondering how to 'date' in the LS
Dear Lounge Advice,
I entered the LS as a single female in search of exploring LL as a single but have recently decided I would like to have a partner/ boyfriend not just a series of sm playmates but one man with which to have an intimate connection and still enjoy the LS with other men... My question is how do I date in LL to find a boyfriend compared to vanilla dating? Thx Athena
HA! You'll find out that as a single female, your question is going to be easily answered in a short amount of time. It's not a whole lot different than vanilla dating. The only difference is that most men here would be more open to a situation like that. You just need to state your goals up front so they understand what you seek. Keep that desire at the forefront of your communcations so the man is clear about your goal at all times, and won't get upset when you try to fulfill it.
The question for YOU is- Will you be okay with HIM seeing other women while you're fulfilling your own fantasies with other men.
If your answer is yes, then you'll find your journey surprisingly easy.
Sit back and enjoy the ride ;)
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