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Question: X Unicorn

Dear Lounge Advice, I entered the lifestyle being single. Four months ago I started a relationship with someone who was not in the lifestyle but open to it. As a female I enjoy my partner with other women. My new partner says he is comfrotable with full swap but when I ask or atempt he changes the subject. I really care for my new partner and want him to be honest with his feelings. What do I , be full swap or just soft swap, X Unicorn



Dear (Anonymous),

Just do what he is comfortable with for now. You have plenty of time to let him get acclimated to things. Don't push too hard, or he might start to withdraw or question your motives.
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