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Question: Embarassed of tummy

Dear Lounge Advice,

I've had three kids and my body shows it, depiste the fact that I took very good care of myself while I was pregnant. My stomach leaves a lot to be desired (loose skin/large, red stretch marks) and my breasts aren't anywhere near as full and perky as the used to be.

I plan on having a tuck and lift when I'm done having kids, but as of right now my Husband and I still want two more. Because of my insecurities, I prefer to play with a top on, like a bustier. I don't post pictures of my stomach, either. Is that deceptive? Should I tell my partners about my desire to keep my top on or about my stomach before we meet? And what do I say to people who ask me for full body pictures?

I'm really ashamed of this part of my body and it embarrasses me to talk about it, so any advice would be helpful.

Thank you!



Dear (Anonymous),

I can understand why you would feel this way. It is NOT deceptive of you not to post pics like that if you aren't comfortable doing so. Just be upfront with anyone who may be a potential partner. If they're not okay with that, they can move on and you will find someone who is ;)
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